Hi, I'm Victoria, and I have many 5-Star Reviews, but I admit, I may not yet be for everyone. I'll meet you where you are at, but you really have to have the right mindset, as well as insight, to take responsibility for your actions or reactions. You might not cause a lot of the problems in your life, but you really are responsible for the way your actions and reactions. You need to have the readiness, desire, and ability to want to change the dysfunctional & distorted patterns and the ways of being, in yourself and in your relationships. It's not always easy, as trying something new can often make you a little fearful, by taking you a little outside of your comfort zone. But I'll help you weigh the pros and cons of different options, give you some different perspectives/suggestions if you like, but you ALWAYS get to choose what you feel is right for you. You have the power and control on your path.  Though remember, all you have control over and can change is you, just like the Serenity Prayer reminds us.