I have many 5-Star Reviews, but I admit, I am not for everyone. 

You really have to have the right mindset, as well as insight, to take responsibility for your actions or reactions. You might not cause a lot of the problems in your life, but you really are responsible for your actions and reactions. You need to have the readiness, desire, and ability to want to change the dysfunctional & distorted patterns and the ways of being, in yourself and in your relationships. It's not always easy, as try something knew can often make you a little fearful, by taking you a little outside of your comfort zone. But we way the pros and cons. I also just give options and there is likely many, but you ALWAYS have the right to say, no. You have the power and control on your path.  Though remember, all you have the control over and can change is you, just like the Serenity Prayer reminds us.